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Sometimes your inability to let go has nothing to do with real love and everything to do with what that person represents in your life. Why do you give them so much importance? Why do you believe that God doesn't love you enough that he would not bring someone else into your life? Why do you put up with less than you deserve?


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Evil originates not in the absence of guilt; but in our effort to escape it.
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If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gi...
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The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would t...
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When you are offered a miracle take it. Otherwise, show God your tail so he can move on and give it ...
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The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.
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Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured b...
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Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point the...
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You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of j...
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Empowered Women 101: A man doesn't have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, ...
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The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of yo...
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Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?
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It is not through fighting the opposition that will win you dignity. It is when you fight the fear i...
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Narcissists will never tell you the truth. They live with the fear of abandonment and can't deal wit...
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Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have t...
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If you hold onto a man hoping someone else won't get them you have learned how to be desperate, not ...
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You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done t...
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It isn't what you will do for your children that makes you a great mother or father. It is what you ...
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It is the subtle things in life that you have to look for because the deepest love speaks at a whisp...
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You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of other...
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Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ...
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God will bring the right person into your life at the right time. Always believe that! If they are n...
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Sometimes, God doesn’t send you into a battle to win it; he sends you to end it.
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If you never learned to hold onto someone, how could it possibly hurt now to let them go?
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It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you an...
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If there was any great lesson in life it was this: No battle was ever won with silence.
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In the end, you will not see the physical beauty in others that caught your eye, but the fire that b...
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When I die I hope it may be said:
'Her suffering was black, but her books were read'.
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The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let peopl...
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The problem isn’t that I think so highly of myself. It is just that you think so little of yoursel...
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When you are being judged by someone that has no idea who you are always remember this: Dogs always ...
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The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather...
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Every broken heart has one time or another asked, "What is important to me now?
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Have you ever thought that the battle you are in was never a lesson, but a test? Will you choose you...
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When someone you loved finds no flattery in the gift you gave them then you must ask yourself, "What...
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Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!
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The Warrior Woman Code:

A confident woman doesn't beg a man to stay, cry if they don't or...
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God will shout during your storms, whisper during your sunshine and sing during the rarest rainbows ...
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God is up to something, but you will never know unless you figure out the difference between who is ...
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History has shown us time and time again that you don't have to know someone to love them with all y...
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Love is a combination of virtues. The amount you receive from someone is based on the percentage of ...
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I no longer follow the voices of the sane. I follow the ill because they see farther, feel much more...
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You will never see things as they are; you will only see things as you are.
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gratitude
noun \ˈgra-tə-ˌtüd, -ˌtyüd\

1. The word thrown in your face by peop...
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Keep those that influence you for the better close and never give them a reason to keep you far away...
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You will never accept gratitude as a solution to your problems, until you have reached the last stag...
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The Voyager

We are all lonely voyagers sailing on life's ebb tide,
To a far o...
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The problem was never my mind; it was a heart that could never hold all that it felt.
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If you want to help someone move on, you don’t label people as good, bad, worst or best. This cate...
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You have to recognize your inability to love before you can love the way God loves. His version of l...
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We were meant to rescue each other, not cut down the forest to rescue one.
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The only healthy marriages that survive are the ones where two people became best friends and learne...
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The problem with Christianity is more people profess the truth than live it. So much hypocrisy aboun...
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I have always found the hardest mind to change is one that is religious.
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